It is not uncommon to come across the word “toothpick” as you scroll down social media posts from friends and strangers. To the younger or older generations toothpick simply means the tiny stick with sharp ends that you use to remove small chunks of food stuck between your teeth. But among the Kenyan youth, toothpick is a word used to refer to small dicks and it is usually derogatory. Men get mocked because of it by ladies who presumably love and only go for big dicks.
While big dicks are appealing to look at, do they really feel as good as they are hyped up to be? Every woman, of course, has her own opinion of big dicks but, speaking for myself and a few of the ladies I have received opinions from, the answer is no. Most men who have big dicks always tend to assume that sex will automatically be good. They, therefore, will skip the foreplay part since they believe they do not have to make up for anything. On the contrary big dicks are not a ticket to good sex. If you are a man who is blessed down there you need to know how it works on a woman. Like the rest of the men, you also need to be mindful of how you pleasure your woman from start to finish.
A woman who is not well lubricated will lead to sex being unenjoyable for both of you. It will even be harder for a big dick to slide inside her and if you manage to push it in then there is a high chance that she will walk out of the sex a bruised woman. There is also a high chance that she will not be coming back to you for sex since it was a traumatizing experience for her. As a matter of fact, the men with small dicks might be providing their women with the best sexual experience out there. They know that when it comes to sex there is so much they can do with their hands and mouths, and that intercourse is just a small part of the act.
So before you start mocking the so-called “toothpicks” think about whether or not your woman is happy. Think about whether you arouse you, woman, before intercourse or not.. and to my fellow women, before you make fun of a man’s size, maybe you should give it a try. You may end up falling in love with it and if you do not, then you have nothing to lose. Having said all this, and whether your dick is big, average, or small, at the end of the day it always comes down to individual preferences.